Dating & Relationship Coaching

It’s the quality of your relationships that will ultimately determine the quality of your life.

- Esther Perel

 

I know it’s often hard to reach out for relationship help.  Many of us experience a lack of effective guidance in this area, both in our youth and throughout lives.

I help people become more skillful and comfortable with intimacy; whether in the early stages of dating or already in a romantic relationship.  We start with goals and use an experiential process to get you where you want to be in your everyday life.  Some of the issues my approach is particularly effective with:

  • Problems saying ‘no’ and setting boundaries 

  • Trouble asking for what you want

  • Low desire

  • Sexless relationships  

If you’re looking for a partner, we’ll work on specific issues that are blocking you and build skills like asking someone out and flirting.  In addition, I’ll explain how to apply The Four Pillars of Romantic Relationship in your search so that you can find all the loving support, companionship and adventure you desire.

The Four Pillars of Romantic Relationship:

  1. Self-love and acceptance

  2. Knowing what you have to offer and what you really want

  3. Intrinsic compatibility

  4. Deep intimacy

To start learning The Four Pillars right away, join my upcoming course, Roadmap To Relationship.

I’d love to hear what’s going on with your relationship journey! Schedule a free 30 minute chat with me here.

 

What my coachees are saying!

Michelle

Chuck is such a wonderful, delicious, gentle coach. His amazing personality naturally melted all my discomforts of working with a male on topics around relationships and sex!

He creates a very safe, loving, judgment free space that leaves so much room for encouraged self-exploration.

Hamu

It had been hard for me to open up and talk about the deep issues of my life and I often felt overwhelmed when trying to work through them.

Chuck’s remarkable sense of presence created a relaxed and trusting atmosphere that enabled me to open up. I remember enthusiastically looking forward to each session. His coaching helped me tap into my own wisdom to find answers that come from me, and work for me.

Today I’m so much better equipped to handle feeling of overwhelm and stay calm and present when I encounter difficult situations.

Leigh

I really enjoyed working with Chuck. He is truly a compassionate listener. He has broadened my perspective and provided me a way to see more possibilities and choices without judgement. I feel freer!

I’m excited to explore the ideas and connections that I was once afraid to try. Because of the new support tools I’ve learned with Chuck, I feel a part of the world and confident that I can navigate it more easily.

Ted

One thing I really appreciated about working with Chuck, was his ability to understand where I was coming from without any judgment.

He was able to guide me away from self-doubt into a more positive and constructive headspace. He helped me identify the stories that I’d gotten tangled in. Our conversations were full of ‘aha’ moments that gave me clarity into the problems and decisions that were holding me back and I was able to get on track with my deeper goals.

Jenna

I've never been the best communicator when it comes to expressing uncomfortable or difficult feelings with the people I care about. I wanted to have a very vulnerable conversation with someone I am currently dating and after my session with Chuck, where we practiced having this conversation, I felt a deep sense of confidence in my ability to communicate my needs.

I completely trust Chuck as a coach because he brings so much compassion, empathy and a calm presence to every session.

pedro

Having Chuck available to talk through some issues of my dating life have been crucial for me to tap into my own needs and opinions about the person I'm seeing. It has helped me understand what type of dynamic I'm having with this person. It has also helped me realize what I want, and how to take action once I'm clear what my needs are.

Having his insights has been very important to me because it helps me trust my deeper intuition.

 

I’m a Somatica® trained Sex and Relationship Coach and a certified Master NLP Practitioner.

 

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